Which statement would be therapeutic for easing a parent's self-blame about a child's weight?

• A. Your daughter has a serious problem, but there are many successful programs that you can join with her to lose weight and improve your overall lifestyle.
• B. There is nothing you can do.
• C. Weight loss is only the daughter's responsibility.
• D. There are many programs that can help both you and your daughter manage weight and improve lifestyle.

Answer: (D)

The idea being tested is how to reduce a parent's self-blame by promoting a collaborative, action-oriented approach that includes both the parent and child and points to practical resources.

The best statement says there are many programs that can help both you and your daughter manage weight and improve lifestyle. This frames the issue as a shared challenge, not the parent's fault, and immediately offers concrete steps you can take together. It supports the parent by validating feelings while directing attention to actionable solutions—finding programs, engaging in joint weight-management efforts, and making lifestyle changes that the whole family can sustain. That inclusive, practical stance is what helps ease guilt and empower constructive change, which aligns with family-based approaches to child weight management.

The other options don’t fit as well. Saying there’s nothing you can do promotes hopelessness and ignores the family’s role in lifestyle changes. Claiming weight loss is only the daughter's responsibility places the burden entirely on her and won’t help a parent move past self-blame. And phrasing the issue as a serious problem for the daughter with separate programs can keep the focus on blame or distance rather than shared action.