In planning a family meeting after a son attempts suicide, which statement would be the most therapeutic start to the meeting?

• A. I am going to begin by talking in general terms about your son's return home and some of the things that might happen. I can suggest measures that might be helpful, and then you can ask questions.
• B. Let's schedule a family meeting to discuss treatment options.
• C. We should focus entirely on the risk of self-harm rather than expectations.
• D. I cannot discuss specifics until I learn more about your son's plan.

Answer: (A)

The key idea is to open with clear, compassionate communication that sets a cooperative and practical tone. Starting with general information about the son’s return home and what might happen gives the family a grounded, predictable framework rather than jumping straight into clinical options or focusing only on risk. It signals that you’re guiding them through the process, not handing down decisions, and you’re offering concrete safety measures they can consider. By inviting questions after outlining what to expect, you create space for the family to engage, voice concerns, and participate in planning, which reinforces safety and collaboration during a difficult time.

Options that jump to treatment discussions too soon, fixate only on risk, or delay specifics tend to heighten anxiety or create distance, making it harder for the family to feel supported and involved.