In a group setting, a client asks about the therapists' own assertiveness. Which response would be most therapeutic?

• A. This group is for all of you here to help you deal with problems more effectively.
• B. We will model assertiveness by speaking for you.
• C. We can't address personal issues in group.
• D. We will tell you how to be assertive in your own life.

Answer: (A)

In group therapy, the facilitator should set a tone that centers the group’s shared work and invites everyone to participate in learning and growth. Saying that the group exists for all members to help each other deal with problems more effectively communicates a collaborative, skills-focused purpose. It keeps the focus on collective learning and support, while preserving boundaries and encouraging members to practice assertiveness within the group dynamic rather than relying on the therapist to speak for them or tell them exactly how to act.

This approach also avoids over-disclosure by the therapist and invites members to explore their own assertiveness through interaction with peers, which is a core therapeutic mechanism in groups. It’s more therapeutic than claiming the therapist will model by speaking for you, dismissing personal issues, or prescribing how to be assertive, all of which either oversteps boundaries or stifle the individual’s agency and experiential learning.