A young adult who lives with family and feels restricted about drinking socially says he cannot offer friends a beer. Therapeutic nursing response?

• A. It seems that you feel you should always follow their rules.
• B. It seems that you want to rebel against your parents.
• C. It seems that your parents expect you to follow their rules when you live under their roof.
• D. You should move out if you don't like the rules.

Answer: (C)

When someone lives with family, rules about drinking are often set by the household. Acknowledging that reality helps the client feel understood and lowers defensiveness: “It seems that your parents expect you to follow their rules when you live under their roof.” This response validates the client’s situation and opens space to talk about negotiating boundaries, safety, and autonomy within those limits.

It invites problem-solving—how to handle social opportunities, what is permissible with friends, and how to host or attend gatherings without violating house rules—without blaming the client or pushing an abrupt, unrealistic solution. The other options come across as judgmental, overly prescriptive, or encouraging an immediate rebellious or drastic move, which can shut down helpful discussion.