A spouse died 10 months ago. Which statement by the client indicates successful mourning?

• A. I'm planning a trip to England next fall to tour the mansions and their gardens.
• B. I've been avoiding social activities because it hurts too much.
• C. I try not to think about the loss.
• D. I will forget this eventually.

Answer: (A)

Successful mourning means gradually resuming normal functioning and engaging with life after a loss while still honoring what was loved. Planning a trip next fall shows forward movement, renewed interest in experiences, and the ability to envision a future beyond the bereavement. It reflects that grief is present but not overpowering, and that the person can balance memory with living activities. In contrast, avoiding social activities, trying not to think about the loss, or expecting to forget it all are patterns of avoidance or denial that hinder adaptation and do not signal healthy adjustment.